Smell is very important to girls. It reminds us of you whenever we smell it in the air or on a pillow. So cologne and good deodorant (along with regular bathing and mouth maintenance) will make you more memorable.
Having a hard time deciding? Here are a few you should try: -Blvgari -Dior Homme -Valentino Uomo -CK One Remember - cologne and fragrances react differently on skin than on paper, so try some on your body to see what works for you. Good luck!
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It's tacky.
You don't have to front and boast about it. You are sending out the message that you are looking for a certain type of person. Big turn off. Unless you want to friend zone someone, refrain from talking about exes.
Couple of reasons: -New person doesn't want to know where you have been and vice versa -Doesn't need someone going down a dark bitter path while enjoying a meal -Saying how crazy an ex is while you give the new person the crazy eye and foaming at the mouth is not really all that attractive -You probably did crazy stuff to get him or her back (flying to confront them, etc.) , and you talk about it proudly... -You look crazy and not in a I'm a hot crazy mess that you want a piece of. More like you got baggage and I am not paying extra for that ride. Either get some great friends to help you through it or get a therapist. Cry it out to someone who loves you no matter how crazy you are or at least gets compensated for it. But honestly, if you don't see it going anywhere - by all means, talk so much about the one that got away and challenge yourself to see how fast the other person can run out of the joint. I just can't be nice about this. When guys come up to rub up on girls at the club, please don't try mark us with your scent. We aren't animals. If I am going to rub up on something I want it to have clinical strength deodorant and Blvgari cologne on it (preferably not that sweaty, but can live with that). Those two things and your chances with a girl when creeping on her goes up by 80%.
Am I wrong, ladies? Really?? No shirt in a creepily dark, gross, unclean guy bathroom and you flexing like a douche. You think that is a turn on?! For real??
Honest automatic reaction: It's such a turn off ; automatically swipe left for "No." Just some observations that have accumulated through the last year or so when meeting new people, trying to find matches, dating, etc. I have to admit, dating is a scary, dark nebulous type of activity - you can't figure out how to waddle through the murkiness. Ladies and gentlemen, proceed with caution. Hopefully this helps you feel that you are not alone or gives your some helpful advice.
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